Welcome to Refined by Fire, Inc.

A community created for firefighter wives, spouses, and families—a place where your heart is understood, your story is honored, and your growth matters.

Our Mission

Refined by Fire, Inc. exists to engage, encourage, and equip firefighter wives to thrive in their marriages, faith, and personal growth. Through practical tools, spiritual renewal, and a supportive family, we create a safe space for rest, reflection, and transformation.

Our mission extends to planning and hosting retreats designed to strengthen and restore firefighter marriages—offering opportunities for both wives and couples to grow together in faith, unity, and purpose.

You Are Not Alone

Behind every firefighter is a family who serves, sacrifices, and loves deeply. Here, you'll find the support you've been longing for—women who understand the long nights, the shift-day worries, the strength you carry, and the faith that sustains you.

What We Offer
1
Wife Retreats
For rest, connection, and spiritual renewal.
2
Couples Retreats
Designed to strengthen marriage, unity, and purpose.
3
Future Family Retreats
Where children can build lasting friendships and grow in their relationship with the Lord.
4
Ongoing Resources & Community Support
Year-round resources, devotionals, tools, and a supportive community.
Join the Family

Find encouragement, friendship, and community in our private Facebook group—a safe place to grow and walk through this journey together.